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  1. October 5th, 2011 11:22 PM #1
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    Is It Wrong To Contact An Ex?

    I know that when your relationship is over it's over, your an ex, move on. But really it's not that easy. When I was with my Ex, she had children I helped raised, and loved them so much. So OK, me and my Ex is over, but what about the love I have for those children. Am I to just forget about her Children? She won't even let them contact me. I had nothing but love for her children. This just breaks my heart.
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    Re: Is It Wrong To Contact An Ex?

    I'm truly sorry to hear that. I don't know why you guys have split. I am going to assume that you are a stand up guy. If you are a good guy, in my opinion it isn't right that she wont let you speak with the children. If you helped raised the children then in my eyes you are the father it takes more then just laying in bed and making a baby to be a father. It takes raising and caring for the child. In my opinion, it isn't wrong to contact an ex unless she has clearly stated that she doesn't want anything to do with you. If she has told you that you cant speak with her children or herself then it's best to tread lightly because you don't want to end up in trouble with the law. There is nothing wrong with contacting an ex as long as you respect their wishes.
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    Re: Is It Wrong To Contact An Ex?

    That's so very sad...

    Heck! I'd kiss a man's feet if he was good to my children and helped me raise them.
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    Re: Is It Wrong To Contact An Ex?

    That's always rough. One of the painful parts of a breakup can be if you lose access to your significant other's friends or family that you cared about. It's doubly bad when it's young kids, because you know they won't necessarily understand why you're suddenly gone from their life.

    I had a girlfriend with a small nephew that I had a bit of a friendship with, and I felt bad when we broke up, because I wouldn't see him anymore. (However, I also felt it would be too awkward/painful to stay in touch with my ex's family, so there was just no winning in this situation.)

    Anyway, it has to be worse if they're kids you had some part in raising.
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